Enter Bitter and Angry Phase
Yesterday, I got into a fight with NQEx. Saturday night I'd gone out with 2DD, El Nuevo Mexicano, and El Nuevo Mexicano's girlfriend to celebrate their birthdays. NQEx called me just as we were leaving, so I told him I was off to dinner and that I'd call him when I got back. Throughout the night, he kept calling my phone, but I never heard it because of the noise in the restaurant. By the time we got home, it was 1am, meaning it was 4am on the East Coast, and I wasn't about to call him and wake him up. I figured I'd just call him in the morning while I was running my errands. Before I even woke up, he called me on my house phone, and was like, Oh, so you're still alive. NQEx isn't normally so passive aggressive, so it really put me on edge. I told him I was sleeping and that I'd call him back later. When I did, he proceeded grilling me about why I didn't call him back after dinner, and why, if I knew I'd be out late, didn't I just tell him I'd be out late and that I'd call him the next day? It was utterly ridiculous. In the entire 3 or 4 years I've known him, he's never acted like that. He has no right to make me feel badly about having a life outside of him. He knew once I was out here it would get a lot harder, and that's why we broke up. Does he expect me to not make friends and not have a social life just because he isn't here? It's so unfair. When he doesn't call me, I don't get mad at him. I know he has other friends out there, and he's probably dating someone else too. So why is he so obsessive about keeping tabs on me? He broke up with me. All rights he had are forfeited. Period.
posted by MelissaJ @ 10:01 PM
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